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The ‘Why?’

Thursday, July 14th 2016

by: Shelley Posted Under: Family, Featured, Uncategorized

“We are making photographs to understand what our lives mean”

~ Ralph Hattersley

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I often wonder why I have this all consuming drive to photograph and document life. I know I am not alone in this, I see countless others around me striving to hold on to these moments and create something tangible from a fleeting event. To hang on to it in some form. The theory: If I photograph it, it is not lost.

I read the words the other day ‘How did it get so late so soon?’ on one of my favourite photography blogs. I’ve had these words spinning round my head over and over for the last week or so trying to understand why they resonate with me and why I couldn’t shake them from my mind. The words are originally Dr Seuss’:

 

“How did it get so late so soon? It’s night before it’s afternoon.

December is here before it’s June. My goodness how the time has flewn.

How did it get so late so soon?”

 

Now I’m one of those people who does far too much thinking for my own good but no matter how much I think, I can’t put my finger on the ‘why?’. It was only when I was looking around my back catalog for a particular photo that I stumbled upon some images that made me realise why I do this. When Lola was 8 days old I took some photos of her – I posed her, put little props on her head and smoothed out her imperfect baby skin. She looked thoroughly adorable of course. But in this back catalog I had kept my ‘outtakes’ in a separate folder – the inbetween moments, the unposed, the spontaneous, and sometimes the out of focus or technically amiss – yet these were the real treasures. This was the real Lola – the way I had remembered her in all her beautiful, imperfect squishy glory. Like little keys they unlocked all of these beautiful memories of our first days together. To find these photos I felt both happy and sad. She’s so big now, a proper little girl. How did it get so late so soon?

I find the passing of time so bittersweet. It happens so fast that some days I feel as though life just snuck up on me and kind of snowballed out of my control. So, how do we reconcile the relentless march of time? Do we reflect and mourn the loss? Or ignore it and forge on revelling in the present moment and what’s to come? I know I need to do the latter more but I’ve realised now that capturing and collecting these memories is an important step that helps to keep me looking forward. Photography to me is an act of love and the photographs I take are the precious souvenirs from a time I once visited.

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Comments

  1. Marlene says:
    July 14, 2016 at 7:02 am

    Shelley, your words feel like mine, only they sound much much better when you say them! These are so precious and make me want to go back to see what I have of my kids from years ago. Lola doesn’t look here, like the lola i know! What a treasured memory!! not lost =)

    • Shelley says:
      July 18, 2016 at 9:55 am

      Haha you made me giggle Marlene. Thank you so much dear friend xx

  2. Luca says:
    July 14, 2016 at 11:50 am

    Such beautiful poignant words Shelley – your photography delights visually, but your words always seem to delight my mind and soul xo xo

    • Shelley says:
      July 18, 2016 at 9:54 am

      Thank you so much Luca. That really is so kind of you to say. I enjoy writing and photography so I love that I can combine them both here xx

  3. Jade says:
    July 14, 2016 at 12:34 pm

    Wow. Those words!!! It is so true I was just sitting here thinking gosh where did today go? Beautiful Shelley just beautiful

    • Shelley says:
      July 18, 2016 at 9:53 am

      Thank you so much Jade xx

  4. Alyssa says:
    July 14, 2016 at 12:47 pm

    Oh wow, Shelley! I could not resist clicking to read your blog, and i’m so glad! You have so many gifts. <3 Thank you for sharing them with the world!

    • Shelley says:
      July 18, 2016 at 9:53 am

      Thank you so much Alyssa. That is so kind of you to say xx

  5. April says:
    July 14, 2016 at 4:21 pm

    I love this so much! Your words truly resonance with me.

    • Shelley says:
      July 18, 2016 at 9:51 am

      Thank you so much April. I’m glad it resonated with you x

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